Some Tips For Success
I wish more people had genuinely made an effort to support me or give me some useful advice for adapting to this ever-changing world. Much of what I know now, I had to learn on my own because no one else was there to teach me. And what some did teach me, ended up being very bad advice. I got robbed by my own mother. Don’t get it twisted, though. I had a handful of people I’ll never forget and will forever hold close to my heart. Hell, some of them I don’t even talk to anymore. Not because we left on bad terms or anything like that. However, in life, people come and go for many reasons. The ultimate reason is to teach lessons that help us grow.
I hope I can be that person in someone’s life who can help guide them through life. Whether it be through these blog entries, music, films, or my many other ventures, whatever it may be, I wish to be that person for you. So, here are some of my tips for success, based on personal and second-hand experiences.
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#1 - Don’t Sell Yourself Short
This is so important because many aspiring entrepreneurs and creatives get into their passions as they are, and then as time passes, it becomes something you can really make some money from. However, many people tend to get so excited about the idea of finally living their dream job or making a career out of their passion, that they forget that it’s all still business at the end of the day.
I’ve never submitted to that idea myself, but it does hold weight in the realms of finance and commerce. That said, never sell yourself short. Always keep your morals and principles in check and stand on them at all times, no matter what. This world will test you to no end so you have to be prepared for people trying to talk you down and lowball you. Know your worth. It’s not a trendy saying anymore. Hell, it never was. It’s truth. It’s the truth we should all live because we are all worthy. You are worthy enough to demand a higher price if your skills, conduct, and overall value permit it.
I've been bamboozled far too many times to count. But I took them all as lessons. Each time i got played, I reflected on what happened and how I could've been more mindful of the situation. Then perhaps I could’ve prevented it. Control what’s in your control. That is how you make your reality as prosperous as you want it to be. It wasn’t until after all the backstabbing I finally came to realize what was up
Never sell yourself short.
#2 - Pay Your Dues
Dame Dash once said you’re not a boss until you start putting up the money for things to get done. Whoever makes the money, puts down the money, is the boss. No question. I agree with that sentiment to a degree. I feel like roles of responsibility are important but no one is ever above anyone else. What you don’t know, someone else may. What you want, someone else may need.
I like to go for a more balanced mentality. I believe in paying what you owe. Of course, if you’re the boss, CEO, President, leader, or whatever title you operate by, you should hold that title to its appropriate standard. Be fair and pay your dues. Never sell anyone out, and never sell anyone else short (referring to Tip #1). Karma bites and when she does, it hurts like a bitch.
#3 - Be Wiser, Not Bigger
I’ve always been on the fence when it comes to being the perceived “bigger person”. I feel like it had its place at a different time that is no longer with us. I think it was formed as more of a coping method when dealing with aggressive, confrontational people. Which makes sense. No one wants their face caved in by some belligerent neanderthal. But in this world, as cruel as it is, it’s important to have a backbone and know when you’re being played with. It can help you avoid unnecessary trouble later on. That’s a big problem for a lot of people. Not thinking long-term. Too many short-term thinkers living short-term lives. Not kosher.
Be mature and carry yourself with dignity and pride, but when trouble arises, be sure to put it out swiftly. I like to strategize and keep my enemies at bay. Allow them to lure themselves into their own traps. For the mature and calculated person, most problems tend to solve themselves.
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Those were just a few I could think of. Take them how you will. I hope I could offer some good advice or some insight into this new world of mine. Being a businessman is some stressful work but it’s the kind of stress that helps me grow. And thus, whatever I touch grows.
Sincerely yours, Mr. Mogul 💎
